In October of 2009, my ex was still trying to get me to move back in with him, but I wouldn't. I said it was too soon, we should make sure it was the right thing to do, find out how we really feel about each other, blah, blah, blah. He obviously didn't listen to me, as he started dating a girl by November and she had moved in with him in January.
I got a new job in February, and met Ani at work. We started dating in April, and it has been going fantastic! That spring, I started going for walks, listening to my i-Pod touch. "According to You" was one of the songs I listened to, and as I listened to the words, I realized that it totally fit in with my life.
The ex used to tell me how none of his friends liked me. I wasn't any fun. I was grumpy all the time. All I did was worry about money (which apparently made me a money-hungry bitch)....well, you get the point.
Then I started seeing Ani. He has nothing but good things to say about me! I'm so much fun, and nice, and everybody loves me. They like hanging out with me. HE likes hanging out with me. He tells me how cute I am and how much he likes being around me.
What a change! I'm still trying to wrap my head around it. It's amazing how being around a positive, fun person makes you in turn a fun, positive person. I like it. Ani is very easy-going, nothing makes him mad (well, except for stupid people). I don't have to worry about pissing him off about ANYTHING!
I guess this song would be my theme for 2010. I can't wait to see what my song is for 2011!